I am thankful for CHRISTMAS MUSIC! I totally cheated and have been listening to it since last week, but now that it's officially "legal" to listen to, I am so happy! Pandora Christian Christmas is so uplifting and I am thankful that it's Christmas time!
Blonde Optimistic, to make things Simplistic; a Happy Housewife, always Loving Life.
Tuesday, November 27, 2012
30 DoT: Day 26
I am thankful for my life. I feel so blessed to be surrounded by the people in it, the love shared, and the experiences, both good and challenging.
30 DoT: Day 25
I am thankful for dates with my hubby! Today we ventured out to the batting cages to experience something new together! We both really surprised each other with how good we still are! Trevor grew up playing baseball and still has skill, for sure! I, on the other hand, never played growing up, but have a natural ability to hit a ball to a bat. So much fun spending time with him and doing something new!
30 DoT: Day 24
I am thankful for family friends. It's always so nice to come home and see people that helped mold you into the person you are today! I absolutely love that I got to see my other mama Glenda, sister Danielle, and favorite crazy "aunt and uncle" Linda & Harry Ortiz while we were home!
30 DoT: Day 23
I am thankful that I get to spend time with my Grandma Linda over Thanksgiving vacation. I admire her strength, free spirit, and love she emulates. I have always felt a unique bond with her and love her for just who she is.
She has gone through way too much at her young age of 72; from getting married very young, to losing her husband during his 3rd open heart surgery at the age of 57, to battling and surviving breast cancer and numerous surgeries, and losing her son at his young age of 51. She has never given up through life's trials and has continually loved and be joyful. I love her so much!
She has gone through way too much at her young age of 72; from getting married very young, to losing her husband during his 3rd open heart surgery at the age of 57, to battling and surviving breast cancer and numerous surgeries, and losing her son at his young age of 51. She has never given up through life's trials and has continually loved and be joyful. I love her so much!
Thursday, November 22, 2012
30 DoT: Day 22
Today is THANKSGIVING and my dad's BIRTHDAY! What a day to be THANKFUL! I am thankful to be in El Dorado Hills with my Trevor, my parents, grandma, aunt, and cousins! I am so blessed and filled with joy today! I love love love love family time and being home!
30 DoT: Day 21
I am so blessed to have a mom that enjoys ALL DAY shopping trips together! Today we were able to have a full day of mother/daughter shopping. I had so much fun shopping for my mom instead of for myself! We revamped her outfits and bought her some skinny jeans, cute tops, and boots! My mom is so stinkin cute and I love her so much!
30 DoT: Day 20
I am thankful that we live close to both of our families. Trevor's parents live just 15 minutes from us, and I am thankful that my parents live a driveable distance from us too. Today we are road-tripping to El Dorado Hills to see my parents for Thanksgiving and my dad's birthday!!
30 DoT: Day 19
Since I am still sick, I think it is fitting to be thankful for doctors who can diagnose and help make people healthy again. I am thankful for these antibiotics that should get me back into full health ASAP!
Sunday, November 18, 2012
30 DoT: Day 18
Even though my teams have been totally stinking this season, I am thankful for FOOTBALL! I am home sick today and thankfully I have a full day of football to entertain me. :-) I haven't had a Sunday all season to just be in the game. :-)
Ok, so I know these guys don't ever play each other, but I had to post this pic since they're my favorite teams!
30 DoT: Day 17
I am thankful for lazy Saturdays! I just love lounging around the house in my jammies and hanging out with the girlies.
Friday, November 16, 2012
30 DoT: Day 16
Being that tonight I am hosting girl's night at my house, it seems fitting to be thankful for girl's nights! I love that us girls can get together and just be silly, eat whatever we want, and drink some good vino! I am thankful to have quality girl time every month with old and new friends. What happens at girl's night, stays at girl's night! :-)
30 DoT: Day 15
I am so incredibly blessed to have the mom-in-law and dad-in-law that I have! I am thankful that they have brought out a new adventurous side to me and have introduced me to many new things; from camping in the desert, to crafts, and to teaching me to not be so girly! I love that I married into a family who also strives to be close knit and spend quality time together. I am blessed to have these two love birds in my life and that they will someday be the grandparents of our children. :-)
Wednesday, November 14, 2012
30 DoT: Day 14
I'm thankful we have a happy little dog, Brody, in our family! I love how he legitimately smiles and is happy to see us in the morning and when we come home from work. Sometimes is frustrating being a pet owner, but overall, Brody is such a sweet dog and we couldn't imagine our family without him.
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
30 DoT: Day 13
With every passing month, I am thankful for patience. God has always proven in my life that his timing is absolutely perfect. I am so thankful that I am able to trust in him; being patient with the plans he has for our marriage.
Monday, November 12, 2012
30 DoT: Day 12
Today is such a great day! It's my BEST FRIEND'S 25th BIRTHDAY!!
I am so thankful that Nicole and I have been best friends for 23 years! We met in pre-school and continued our friendship through my family moving 2 hours away, college, and now grown up life. She is such a beautiful person and has the biggest heart and best sense of humor, ever! I feel blessed to have a constant friend in my life. She is someone I am always always always able to rely on and feel supported. Nicole, I hope that 25 brings you a new and exciting year, filled with opportunities, love, friendships, and adventure! Thanks for being a little gem in my life!
I am so thankful that Nicole and I have been best friends for 23 years! We met in pre-school and continued our friendship through my family moving 2 hours away, college, and now grown up life. She is such a beautiful person and has the biggest heart and best sense of humor, ever! I feel blessed to have a constant friend in my life. She is someone I am always always always able to rely on and feel supported. Nicole, I hope that 25 brings you a new and exciting year, filled with opportunities, love, friendships, and adventure! Thanks for being a little gem in my life!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, NICOLE!!
30 DoT: Day 11
Yesterday, I was at church from 7:30am to 7:00pm working at all of our services. Normally, these days feel long, but something happened that made me realize how thankful I am to be serving in a ministry for my job, rather than having a career.
My Service Lead for the 10:45am service pulled together the hospitality team and shared his story with us yesterday. He serves on hospitality in memory of his wife who passed away nearly 3 years ago and he wears a pin to honor her and has continued serving in hospitality because of her legacy. At that moment, it clicked with me, I am not merely just "working;" I am in full time ministry and serving with people with big hearts. I am serving with people who want to honor God by showing love to every person who walks through our church's doors. I am privileged to have amazing Team Leads and Service Leads who can direct their hospitality teams and lead them to know Jesus. I love that I get to serve with 50+ people on a given weekend who are all becoming my friends and implementing the vision we have for the guest experience at Newbreak.
My Service Lead for the 10:45am service pulled together the hospitality team and shared his story with us yesterday. He serves on hospitality in memory of his wife who passed away nearly 3 years ago and he wears a pin to honor her and has continued serving in hospitality because of her legacy. At that moment, it clicked with me, I am not merely just "working;" I am in full time ministry and serving with people with big hearts. I am serving with people who want to honor God by showing love to every person who walks through our church's doors. I am privileged to have amazing Team Leads and Service Leads who can direct their hospitality teams and lead them to know Jesus. I love that I get to serve with 50+ people on a given weekend who are all becoming my friends and implementing the vision we have for the guest experience at Newbreak.
Saturday, November 10, 2012
30 DoT: Day 10
I am thankful for my sister, Annie Miranda. Today is a fitting day to be thankful for her, because it's also her birthday!!! It's hard to believe how fast time has flown by, we have been friends for 17 years!
As a child, we would play nearly every day after school, have family dinners, have pool parties, and always always have a fun time together. Even though we aren't officially related, we are without a doubt sisters. I love this little pumpkin so much, and even though life is leading us down separate, busy, paths; I will always have a sisterly bond with her. Happy Birthday, Annie! I love you!!
As a child, we would play nearly every day after school, have family dinners, have pool parties, and always always have a fun time together. Even though we aren't officially related, we are without a doubt sisters. I love this little pumpkin so much, and even though life is leading us down separate, busy, paths; I will always have a sisterly bond with her. Happy Birthday, Annie! I love you!!
30 DoT: Day 9
I'm thankful that I miss my husband when we aren't together. Last night he went on a "man date" with his best friend and within the first hour of him leaving, I missed him. So, I cuddled up in a pair of his sweats and a t-shirt while I watched chick flicks all night. I'm so thankful to be married to a man that I miss when he's not around. (Oh, and he missed me too!)
Thursday, November 8, 2012
30 DoT: Day 8
Last night, I woke up around 2:30am to the sound of rain outside. There is nothing more serene than hearing rain in the night; in fact, I'm pretty sure I smiled when I heard it. I am so thankful for the rain. I love the smell that it leaves behind, the crystal clear blue skies, and how it makes everything fresh and clean again.
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
30 DoT: Day 7
With the outcome of the election last night, I am still thankful to be an American. I am also thankful that my hope is in Jesus Christ. With Obama being re-elected, I am further encouraged to be in prayer for our country and where we are headed. With everything that is to come, I am thankful that the truth and justice of Jesus will prevail.
There was an image posted on Facebook last night that really made me reflect about all of this election madness and brought my heart back to where it belongs:
There was an image posted on Facebook last night that really made me reflect about all of this election madness and brought my heart back to where it belongs:
Tuesday, November 6, 2012
30 DoT: Day 6
I am thankful to be an American. Regardless of the outcome of the Election today, and regardless of which policies pass and which don't, I am blessed to be born into a free country.
Monday, November 5, 2012
Sunday, November 4, 2012
30 DoT: Day 4
I am thankful to have the friends that I have. I have a core group of girls who have been with me throughout some of the toughest and happiest moments of my life. I am also blessed for all of the new friends I am making who encourage and relate to the walk of life that I am currently in. Love you all so much!
Saturday, November 3, 2012
30 DoT: Day 3
I am thankful to have such caring, thoughtful, generous, loving, and fun parents. Not many people can say that their parents are their best friends and enjoy spending time with them. I am blessed to have a dad who is a complete goofball and a mom who is so patient and wise. I love you!!
Friday, November 2, 2012
30 DoT: Day 2
I am thankful that Trevor and I have jobs that utilize our skills and talents. Though some days can be hard, nonetheless, we are blessed to have steady incomes and be in positions where others rely on us every day.
Thursday, November 1, 2012
30 Days of Thankfulness (30 DoT)
My favorite month has finally arrived! It's November 1, which marks the first day of my favorite month, ever!
I honestly couldn't tell you why November has won the "favorite month" contest, but it could be because three of my favorite people celebrate their birthday this month, or because there is an entire day designated to eating. Regardless, it's November and I am so happy!
Today when I woke up, I had a revelation. I decided that November is going to be a month full of thankfulness and prayer. I feel like this year has been so busy that I haven't had the chance to sit back and be thankful for all of the blessings in our life. To go with this, I also have slacked in the area of keeping my prayer journal up to date. Every day for the month of November, I will blog a short blip about something I'm thankful for (in no particular order) as well as make an extra effort to journal my prayers. 30 days, totally do-able.
30 DoT: Day 1
I just can't help but feel so blessed to be married to the man of my dreams and best friend. I wouldn't want it any other way.
I honestly couldn't tell you why November has won the "favorite month" contest, but it could be because three of my favorite people celebrate their birthday this month, or because there is an entire day designated to eating. Regardless, it's November and I am so happy!
Today when I woke up, I had a revelation. I decided that November is going to be a month full of thankfulness and prayer. I feel like this year has been so busy that I haven't had the chance to sit back and be thankful for all of the blessings in our life. To go with this, I also have slacked in the area of keeping my prayer journal up to date. Every day for the month of November, I will blog a short blip about something I'm thankful for (in no particular order) as well as make an extra effort to journal my prayers. 30 days, totally do-able.
30 DoT: Day 1
I just can't help but feel so blessed to be married to the man of my dreams and best friend. I wouldn't want it any other way.
Recent Happenings
By golly, has it really been 2 full months since I last blogged? Crazy how time flies by when you're having fun!
Here are some of the most recent happenings in our life since I last posted the Gangnam Style video:
1. Gangnam Style by PSY is now #2 on the Billboards and much overplayed.
2. I had my 90 day review at Hotel Palomar and didn't get any recognition or support I deserve, so I began to pray and continue to work harder and longer hours at my job.
3. God was faithful and I was offered a paid, full time opportunity to join the staff at Newbreak Church as the Guest Relations Director! Being in full time ministry is the most rewarding, challenging, and fun job I have ever had. As the Guest Relations Director, my primary role is to assimilate guests into our church and community. I also oversee 300+ hospitality team members between our 6 campuses, improve the guest experience, and lead people to know the love of Jesus. Since going into full time ministry, I have been able to focus more on my faith, marriage, friendships, and future of my family.
4. Trevor and I had a nice little road trip to my parent's house for Labor Day weekend. It really is the best end of summer trip!
5. Brody officially forgot that he was potty trained... we're working on it, again.
6. My best friend had her little girl, Emery! Such a joy and I can't wait to meet the little pumpkin!
7. Trevor and I challenged ourself to a 2 day, 100 mile bike ride for the MS Society from Irvine to San Diego! With the lack of training, we weren't sure how the ride was going to be for us, but we killed it! We had the best time and made an amazing team. The first day was 60 miles and the second was 40 miles. For me, this was the first time I ever signed up for a physical challenge and actually crossed the finish line! I can really thank Trevor for staying with me and being my cheerleader the entire ride. We are already looking forward to another ride in April! I can proudly say that I feel accomplished!
8. Trevor and I have decided we are ready to be parents in God's perfect timing.
9. We went APPLE PICKING! I have never been before and the Stevenson's treated us to a fun day of apple picking and touring Julian.
10. I became a host home for a women's Life Group at my church. We meet Tuesday nights and are going through the book, "The Power of a Praying Wife." There is something about being around other married women and talking about how we can be Godly wives that is just so cool!
11. Our friend network is growing! Between our neighbors, friends in new relationships, and people we are meeting at church, we have been keeping a busy social calendar! This week alone, we have 2 birthday parties, a baby shower, and friends visiting from out of state!
This is what life is all about, right?
Here are some of the most recent happenings in our life since I last posted the Gangnam Style video:
1. Gangnam Style by PSY is now #2 on the Billboards and much overplayed.
2. I had my 90 day review at Hotel Palomar and didn't get any recognition or support I deserve, so I began to pray and continue to work harder and longer hours at my job.
3. God was faithful and I was offered a paid, full time opportunity to join the staff at Newbreak Church as the Guest Relations Director! Being in full time ministry is the most rewarding, challenging, and fun job I have ever had. As the Guest Relations Director, my primary role is to assimilate guests into our church and community. I also oversee 300+ hospitality team members between our 6 campuses, improve the guest experience, and lead people to know the love of Jesus. Since going into full time ministry, I have been able to focus more on my faith, marriage, friendships, and future of my family.
4. Trevor and I had a nice little road trip to my parent's house for Labor Day weekend. It really is the best end of summer trip!
5. Brody officially forgot that he was potty trained... we're working on it, again.
6. My best friend had her little girl, Emery! Such a joy and I can't wait to meet the little pumpkin!
7. Trevor and I challenged ourself to a 2 day, 100 mile bike ride for the MS Society from Irvine to San Diego! With the lack of training, we weren't sure how the ride was going to be for us, but we killed it! We had the best time and made an amazing team. The first day was 60 miles and the second was 40 miles. For me, this was the first time I ever signed up for a physical challenge and actually crossed the finish line! I can really thank Trevor for staying with me and being my cheerleader the entire ride. We are already looking forward to another ride in April! I can proudly say that I feel accomplished!
8. Trevor and I have decided we are ready to be parents in God's perfect timing.
9. We went APPLE PICKING! I have never been before and the Stevenson's treated us to a fun day of apple picking and touring Julian.
10. I became a host home for a women's Life Group at my church. We meet Tuesday nights and are going through the book, "The Power of a Praying Wife." There is something about being around other married women and talking about how we can be Godly wives that is just so cool!
11. Our friend network is growing! Between our neighbors, friends in new relationships, and people we are meeting at church, we have been keeping a busy social calendar! This week alone, we have 2 birthday parties, a baby shower, and friends visiting from out of state!
This is what life is all about, right?
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Comedy
Okay, so for those who know me well, know that I love funny videos on YouTube. Especially the ones that appear to be serious and legit artists, but the video is just hilarious and you can't help but think it's a joke! My fabulous sister sent me this gem today that is just too good not to share! Be sure you watch the entire thing, you will laugh! Enjoy!!
Saturday, April 14, 2012
Inches, not Pounds
Last year leading up to the wedding, I was very active, running, hiking, and keeping so busy that it was natural for me to stay in shape. But, the last 10 months of my life I have literally been in hibernation bliss. I would come home from work and nearly every day throw on comfy clothes, make a delicious dinner, and vedge on the couch catching up on recorded shows. Well, with that type of lifestyle comes consequences... you gain weight, bad weight. I honestly haven't stepped on a scale to know how much I've gained, but from the tightness of my jeans and the looks of my tops, I have definitely gotten out of shape. The thing is, you don't realize you're gaining weight as it happens, rather, when you come down to sunny weather where tight tops and shorts are a must, you realize you have failed miserably.
I thought I'd write about what my action plan is to get back in shape. My goal here is not to lose weight, but to lose inches and substitute fat for muscle weight. I have learned to love my curves and realized that skinny just isn't in my genetics... but to be honest, for me, being healthy and fit is far more important than being skinny. Twiggy just isn't my style.
Since being back down here, I have already formed accountability with friends, co-workers, and when Trevor is down here, him too. I have set realistic goals for myself and realize that I'm going to have to work hard at the results I want to see by our anniversary, June 11, 2012.
Here are some action plans...
Co-Workers: We have a weekly calendar with a few people from the office that holds yourself accountable to how you did the day before. If you did really well, worked out & ate healthy, you put a green "X" on the day before by your name. If you ate well but didn't work out, it's a yellow "X," and if you didn't eat well or work out, it's a red "X." I love that my co-workers strive to be healthy and want to encourage each other to do well and be fit.
Friends: Mondays are reserved for Convention Center stairs. Ouch! Right after work I am going to meet with a friend and run for 30 minutes up and down the Convention Center stairs. These babies aren't a walk in the park!
Tuesday & Thursdays are reserved for boardwalk runs with another friend. We both want to be held accountable and think that it's important to get fit together. This is my absolute FAVORITE place to run in San Diego. There's just something about the beach that clears your mind and makes you appreciate where you live.
Hubby: Wednesdays are a good night to lift and build some muscle. With all the cardio I'm doing, it's important to get some weights in there as well. We also both bought road bikes up in Washington and have hardly used them. We have decided that we want to participate in the MS Bike Ride in October which is 150 miles from Long Beach to San Diego. Trevor will do the full stretch, but my goal is to do the last 50 miles. If we start training on weekends, we should be able to train pretty well!
With 5 days of exercise and eating healthy, I know that I will quickly see results. My ideal physique would be to have a big smile on my face, knowing that I'm doing the best I can to be healthy. This blog isn't for anyone else, but myself. It's a journal that will help keep me accountable in life.... whether it's being fit, keeping happy, being a positive and encouraging wife, and being a good friend; it's for myself to reflect on and see how far I've come.
Gotta run!
I thought I'd write about what my action plan is to get back in shape. My goal here is not to lose weight, but to lose inches and substitute fat for muscle weight. I have learned to love my curves and realized that skinny just isn't in my genetics... but to be honest, for me, being healthy and fit is far more important than being skinny. Twiggy just isn't my style.
Since being back down here, I have already formed accountability with friends, co-workers, and when Trevor is down here, him too. I have set realistic goals for myself and realize that I'm going to have to work hard at the results I want to see by our anniversary, June 11, 2012.
Here are some action plans...
Co-Workers: We have a weekly calendar with a few people from the office that holds yourself accountable to how you did the day before. If you did really well, worked out & ate healthy, you put a green "X" on the day before by your name. If you ate well but didn't work out, it's a yellow "X," and if you didn't eat well or work out, it's a red "X." I love that my co-workers strive to be healthy and want to encourage each other to do well and be fit.
Friends: Mondays are reserved for Convention Center stairs. Ouch! Right after work I am going to meet with a friend and run for 30 minutes up and down the Convention Center stairs. These babies aren't a walk in the park!
Tuesday & Thursdays are reserved for boardwalk runs with another friend. We both want to be held accountable and think that it's important to get fit together. This is my absolute FAVORITE place to run in San Diego. There's just something about the beach that clears your mind and makes you appreciate where you live.
Hubby: Wednesdays are a good night to lift and build some muscle. With all the cardio I'm doing, it's important to get some weights in there as well. We also both bought road bikes up in Washington and have hardly used them. We have decided that we want to participate in the MS Bike Ride in October which is 150 miles from Long Beach to San Diego. Trevor will do the full stretch, but my goal is to do the last 50 miles. If we start training on weekends, we should be able to train pretty well!
With 5 days of exercise and eating healthy, I know that I will quickly see results. My ideal physique would be to have a big smile on my face, knowing that I'm doing the best I can to be healthy. This blog isn't for anyone else, but myself. It's a journal that will help keep me accountable in life.... whether it's being fit, keeping happy, being a positive and encouraging wife, and being a good friend; it's for myself to reflect on and see how far I've come.
Gotta run!
Monday, April 9, 2012
Back in the Big SD
And LOVING it!
Well, it's official, I am a San Diegan once again and it feels so good!
Last Wednesday my mom flew up to Washington to then drive with me all the way to San Diego. Thursday was a 14 hour drive with Brody and Friday was a 9 hour drive; both of which began at 3:30am! The drive was super easy and didn't seem too long since we had plenty of audio books and good music to listen to the whole way. From the crazy old angry men in Medford, to our smiles getting bigger and bigger as we approached Sunny San Diego, I enjoyed having my mom with me on this adventure!
Not only was driving down a success, but I managed to lock in a lease to a privately owned condo right by our church on Saturday! It was a total God moment (once again)... My mom and I were touring SEVERAL apartment complexes in the area to only find out that they want $1900+ for rent! So, being discouraged and about to take a break from the search, I saw a "For Rent" sign on a street corner in Tierrasanta (a REALLY nice and safe area of San Diego) and decided to call even though the rent was about $100 over our budget. Upon arranging a tour of the condo and meeting the owner, I LOVED the place! It's 1200 sq. ft. which is massive in San Diego, 2 bed/2 bath, courtyard, and a 2 car garage! I mentioned our maximum price and he offered the condo for $55 less than the asking price which allowed us to afford it. But wait, it gets better-- He gave me a key that day and isn't charging us rent until April 28!
After leasing the condo, I introduced myself to three women in the street talking. One is pregnant, another is younger and lives with her boyfriend, and another couple has a young son and the husband jokingly said that "there's a 1 child minimum to live here." I instantly clicked with them all and I can't wait for Trevor to meet them and for many get together's/dinner nights to come.
On Easter, I attended my church where I ran into many faces I missed, including our Pastor and his wife. They were thrilled to have us back and can't wait for Trevor to be back too! It's crazy to think how my life has come full circle; 3 years ago on Easter, I attended my first service at my church and it's pretty cool to be back on Easter, knowing that I'm back to stay. My pastor's wife was very generous in offering me a full time job with the church too. I have always wanted to work in the church environment, but I think I need to continue developing myself professionally (I have a degree for a reason), and volunteer with the church rather than be employed with them at the moment. I am thankful for them seeking me out and wanting me to join their staff... maybe in a couple years! Easter was also my mom-in-law's birthday so we spent the day with the Stevenson family catching up, enjoying good company and food! I love my family!
Last night I received a knock on my door at the hotel with a Welcome delivery consisting of wine, cheese, fruit, chips, yogurt, water, and a book of photos of San Diego. I think the book made the biggest impression of them all, as when I opened the front cover, there were personal welcome notes from the entire sales team. I have never felt so welcomed by anyone and so excited to meet the people I'll be working with! I think that the book really set the tone of my experience with Hyatt and I couldn't be more happy.
Today I stopped by the sales office to introduce myself to the team prior to starting work tomorrow. I swear, this job compared to my old job are like night and day! I was thrilled to meet young professionals who are social, happy, and just as excited to meet me as I am to meet them! I can definitely see some friendships forming out of this team, as it was so easy to talk to them and connect with them. I start my career with Hyatt and am so excited to be with a company long term. It feels so good to be working in a fun environment again!
For now, I will be living in the hotel for a couple weeks and then moving into family friend's house until Trevor comes down May 3. It's hard not having him with me here; to help find a condo, to kiss me on my first day of work. I know that time will go by fast for both of us and that we will soon be settled down here with each other and our little pup. In the meantime, I am going to focus on losing the weight I put on in my "hibernation" in Washington, connect with old friends, and take in every moment of being back home.
I am so grateful for the support from all my friends and family in our big life change. It feels so good to be back. God keeps providing for us and it's so comforting to know that he's guiding us through it all.
Well, it's official, I am a San Diegan once again and it feels so good!
Last Wednesday my mom flew up to Washington to then drive with me all the way to San Diego. Thursday was a 14 hour drive with Brody and Friday was a 9 hour drive; both of which began at 3:30am! The drive was super easy and didn't seem too long since we had plenty of audio books and good music to listen to the whole way. From the crazy old angry men in Medford, to our smiles getting bigger and bigger as we approached Sunny San Diego, I enjoyed having my mom with me on this adventure!
Not only was driving down a success, but I managed to lock in a lease to a privately owned condo right by our church on Saturday! It was a total God moment (once again)... My mom and I were touring SEVERAL apartment complexes in the area to only find out that they want $1900+ for rent! So, being discouraged and about to take a break from the search, I saw a "For Rent" sign on a street corner in Tierrasanta (a REALLY nice and safe area of San Diego) and decided to call even though the rent was about $100 over our budget. Upon arranging a tour of the condo and meeting the owner, I LOVED the place! It's 1200 sq. ft. which is massive in San Diego, 2 bed/2 bath, courtyard, and a 2 car garage! I mentioned our maximum price and he offered the condo for $55 less than the asking price which allowed us to afford it. But wait, it gets better-- He gave me a key that day and isn't charging us rent until April 28!
Our Condo |
After leasing the condo, I introduced myself to three women in the street talking. One is pregnant, another is younger and lives with her boyfriend, and another couple has a young son and the husband jokingly said that "there's a 1 child minimum to live here." I instantly clicked with them all and I can't wait for Trevor to meet them and for many get together's/dinner nights to come.
On Easter, I attended my church where I ran into many faces I missed, including our Pastor and his wife. They were thrilled to have us back and can't wait for Trevor to be back too! It's crazy to think how my life has come full circle; 3 years ago on Easter, I attended my first service at my church and it's pretty cool to be back on Easter, knowing that I'm back to stay. My pastor's wife was very generous in offering me a full time job with the church too. I have always wanted to work in the church environment, but I think I need to continue developing myself professionally (I have a degree for a reason), and volunteer with the church rather than be employed with them at the moment. I am thankful for them seeking me out and wanting me to join their staff... maybe in a couple years! Easter was also my mom-in-law's birthday so we spent the day with the Stevenson family catching up, enjoying good company and food! I love my family!
Last night I received a knock on my door at the hotel with a Welcome delivery consisting of wine, cheese, fruit, chips, yogurt, water, and a book of photos of San Diego. I think the book made the biggest impression of them all, as when I opened the front cover, there were personal welcome notes from the entire sales team. I have never felt so welcomed by anyone and so excited to meet the people I'll be working with! I think that the book really set the tone of my experience with Hyatt and I couldn't be more happy.
Today I stopped by the sales office to introduce myself to the team prior to starting work tomorrow. I swear, this job compared to my old job are like night and day! I was thrilled to meet young professionals who are social, happy, and just as excited to meet me as I am to meet them! I can definitely see some friendships forming out of this team, as it was so easy to talk to them and connect with them. I start my career with Hyatt and am so excited to be with a company long term. It feels so good to be working in a fun environment again!
For now, I will be living in the hotel for a couple weeks and then moving into family friend's house until Trevor comes down May 3. It's hard not having him with me here; to help find a condo, to kiss me on my first day of work. I know that time will go by fast for both of us and that we will soon be settled down here with each other and our little pup. In the meantime, I am going to focus on losing the weight I put on in my "hibernation" in Washington, connect with old friends, and take in every moment of being back home.
Walking the Boardwalk |
Harbor Sunset |
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
March Madness
...you can say that again!
March made me realize, again, how involved God is in our lives and how He always has a plan that will transpire in His perfect timing. Let me clarify that I am in no way claiming that my life is perfect, but I want to reveal how timing seems to be a recurring promise that God keeps making in my life. Hmmm, He must know that I'm a Super Planner or something! From meeting and marrying Trevor, moving to Washington, finding a good job, to now relocating back to San Diego, God has once again proved that his timing is PERFECT and He has never let me down.
February 23, 2012-
Trevor and I had a serious heart to heart conversation about the realities of moving back to California verses the benefits of staying in Washington. We are getting to the point where the reality of starting a family is quickly approaching and we are faced with a major decision on where we want to establish our home together. After several hours of excitement, tears, frustration, and discussion, it was decided; we are going to move back to San Diego. We both feel that our hearts are in San Diego.
Ok, good, we picked a location, but now we both have to find new jobs, figure out how we are going to pay for our lease up here while renting in San Diego, and being able to afford the move in general. Nothing is ever easy-- or is it?
Let's rewind to last July...remember my blog post about the changes and adjustment to Washington? Well, for those who know me, I am a California girl from the inside out and my adjustment to Washington has been extremely difficult. From the commute, not finding a church, the dreary weather, and the people; Kristen+Washington=Bust.
Now, I have adapted to the lifestyle change and have been doing my best to continue rolling with the punches to remain happy where I am at now-- How can I not? I have an amazing husband, good job, and a pup that all remind me how blessed I am. But, there are many other aspects that contribute to our life experience that is missing. We both need family, friends, our church that we love, and sunshine. So knowing this, we have been praying earnestly for clarity and guidance as to where God is leading us.
February 27, 2012-
This day marked a pivitol day in our marriage. Trevor's dad, John, called Trevor with unreal news; his company is looking for a master welder and they wanted to offer it to Trevor first. Wait- what? Yes, a company in San Diego wants to hire Trevor and only Trevor, AND they are willing to hold the job for him until May to give me enough time to line up a job too. Prayer "Part 1," -Answered! Now it's time for me to start applying for jobs...
March 7, 2012-
By this time I had already had about 20 applications (I know.. I'm a little type-A) out in San Diego and I had just arrived to Reno, NV for a convention for work. While I was there I ran into a friend from San Diego and I explained to him our situation and wanting to move back south. Oddly enough, he had just spoke with the Assistant Director of Sales at the Manchester Grand Hyatt, who is also attending the convention, and encouraged me to "find" him connect with him. His description help me find the guy? "Look for a guy about this tall, with blondish/redish hair, no jacket, and carrying and iPad." Ha, this would have been a wonderful description for any other day besides today-- EVERY person at the convention had an iPad, and there were over 5,000 attendees. Kinda like finding a needle in a haystack?
About an hour into the convention, I was sitting in a seminar, and right in front of me was someone who matched the EXACT description of the person I should connect with. Sure enough, it was the Assistant Director of Sales for the Manchester Grand Hyatt! I introduced myself and we exchanged business cards and he encouraged me to send him an email so he could follow up with my application when he gets back.
March 9, 2012-
I was visiting my parents in El Dorado Hills the remainder of the week and I woke up to a voice message from the Manchester Grand Hyatt wanting to interview me via Skype that day! Interview #1, complete.
March 12, 2012-
Hyatt wanted to set up another interview! Woo!
March 16, 2012-
Interview via Skype again. No more than an hour later, I received phone calls from two different managers at the property asking me priliminary interview questions again (this hotel was thourough to say the least!).
At 3:30pm, Hyatt called me once again, however, this time with VERY exciting news!! They extended a job offer to me; not only increasing my salary, but offering significant relocation assistance! Prayer "Part 2,"-Answered!
Today, March 27, 2012-
My last day at my current job is this Friday and I will be moving to San Diego next Thursday, April 5. It is absolutely insane to me how perfect God's timing has been in all of this. Basically two jobs fell into mine and Trevor's laps over a period of a couple weeks; in which both are amazing opportunities for us professionally. If the series of events aren't a clear sign as to what direction we should go, I don't know what is!
We are so overjoyed, happy, scared, and stressed all at once that it makes our days quite unpredictable. They say that moving is one of the biggest stresses on a marriage and I am prayerful that the stress stays at a low and the excitement and happiness overflows in our marriage over the next couple weeks. Since I am moving next week and Trevor is moving two weeks after, we are going to put our thinking caps together and work in sync as a team. This will be our second move across the country (North/South) in less than a year, and I know that every challenge we face is making us stronger together. Now that most of the stressful logistic stuff is done, we are able to talk and be excited about everything we look forward to again: SUNSHINE, Mexican food, friends, chuch, family, and fun things to do!
March made me realize, again, how involved God is in our lives and how He always has a plan that will transpire in His perfect timing. Let me clarify that I am in no way claiming that my life is perfect, but I want to reveal how timing seems to be a recurring promise that God keeps making in my life. Hmmm, He must know that I'm a Super Planner or something! From meeting and marrying Trevor, moving to Washington, finding a good job, to now relocating back to San Diego, God has once again proved that his timing is PERFECT and He has never let me down.
February 23, 2012-
Trevor and I had a serious heart to heart conversation about the realities of moving back to California verses the benefits of staying in Washington. We are getting to the point where the reality of starting a family is quickly approaching and we are faced with a major decision on where we want to establish our home together. After several hours of excitement, tears, frustration, and discussion, it was decided; we are going to move back to San Diego. We both feel that our hearts are in San Diego.
Ok, good, we picked a location, but now we both have to find new jobs, figure out how we are going to pay for our lease up here while renting in San Diego, and being able to afford the move in general. Nothing is ever easy-- or is it?
Let's rewind to last July...remember my blog post about the changes and adjustment to Washington? Well, for those who know me, I am a California girl from the inside out and my adjustment to Washington has been extremely difficult. From the commute, not finding a church, the dreary weather, and the people; Kristen+Washington=Bust.
Now, I have adapted to the lifestyle change and have been doing my best to continue rolling with the punches to remain happy where I am at now-- How can I not? I have an amazing husband, good job, and a pup that all remind me how blessed I am. But, there are many other aspects that contribute to our life experience that is missing. We both need family, friends, our church that we love, and sunshine. So knowing this, we have been praying earnestly for clarity and guidance as to where God is leading us.
February 27, 2012-
This day marked a pivitol day in our marriage. Trevor's dad, John, called Trevor with unreal news; his company is looking for a master welder and they wanted to offer it to Trevor first. Wait- what? Yes, a company in San Diego wants to hire Trevor and only Trevor, AND they are willing to hold the job for him until May to give me enough time to line up a job too. Prayer "Part 1," -Answered! Now it's time for me to start applying for jobs...
March 7, 2012-
By this time I had already had about 20 applications (I know.. I'm a little type-A) out in San Diego and I had just arrived to Reno, NV for a convention for work. While I was there I ran into a friend from San Diego and I explained to him our situation and wanting to move back south. Oddly enough, he had just spoke with the Assistant Director of Sales at the Manchester Grand Hyatt, who is also attending the convention, and encouraged me to "find" him connect with him. His description help me find the guy? "Look for a guy about this tall, with blondish/redish hair, no jacket, and carrying and iPad." Ha, this would have been a wonderful description for any other day besides today-- EVERY person at the convention had an iPad, and there were over 5,000 attendees. Kinda like finding a needle in a haystack?
About an hour into the convention, I was sitting in a seminar, and right in front of me was someone who matched the EXACT description of the person I should connect with. Sure enough, it was the Assistant Director of Sales for the Manchester Grand Hyatt! I introduced myself and we exchanged business cards and he encouraged me to send him an email so he could follow up with my application when he gets back.
March 9, 2012-
I was visiting my parents in El Dorado Hills the remainder of the week and I woke up to a voice message from the Manchester Grand Hyatt wanting to interview me via Skype that day! Interview #1, complete.
March 12, 2012-
Hyatt wanted to set up another interview! Woo!
March 16, 2012-
Interview via Skype again. No more than an hour later, I received phone calls from two different managers at the property asking me priliminary interview questions again (this hotel was thourough to say the least!).
At 3:30pm, Hyatt called me once again, however, this time with VERY exciting news!! They extended a job offer to me; not only increasing my salary, but offering significant relocation assistance! Prayer "Part 2,"-Answered!
Today, March 27, 2012-
My last day at my current job is this Friday and I will be moving to San Diego next Thursday, April 5. It is absolutely insane to me how perfect God's timing has been in all of this. Basically two jobs fell into mine and Trevor's laps over a period of a couple weeks; in which both are amazing opportunities for us professionally. If the series of events aren't a clear sign as to what direction we should go, I don't know what is!
We are so overjoyed, happy, scared, and stressed all at once that it makes our days quite unpredictable. They say that moving is one of the biggest stresses on a marriage and I am prayerful that the stress stays at a low and the excitement and happiness overflows in our marriage over the next couple weeks. Since I am moving next week and Trevor is moving two weeks after, we are going to put our thinking caps together and work in sync as a team. This will be our second move across the country (North/South) in less than a year, and I know that every challenge we face is making us stronger together. Now that most of the stressful logistic stuff is done, we are able to talk and be excited about everything we look forward to again: SUNSHINE, Mexican food, friends, chuch, family, and fun things to do!
"Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you all the desires of your heart." ~Psalm 37:4
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Trusting God
I received this in an email this morning and thought it was worth sharing. Sometimes you wonder why you had such a bad day, when in reality, it really was a GOOD day! Enjoy!
Me (in a tizzy): God, can I ask you something?
Me (in a tizzy): God, can I ask you something?
GOD: Sure.
Me: Promise you won't get mad?
GOD: I promise.
Me (frustrated): Why did you let so much stuff happen to me today?
GOD: What do you mean?
Me: Well I woke up late,
GOD: Yes..
Me: My car took forever to start,
GOD: Okay....
Me (growling): At lunch, they made my sandwich wrong and I had to wait.
GOD: Hmmmm..
Me: On the way home, my phone went dead, just as I picked up a call.
GOD: All right.
Me (loudly): And to top it all off, when I got home, I just wanted to soakmy feet in my foot massager and relax, but it wouldn't work.
Nothing went right today! Why did you do that?!
GOD: Well, let me see..... the death angel was at your bed this morning and
I had to send one of the other angels to battle him for your life. I let you
sleep through that.
I had to send one of the other angels to battle him for your life. I let you
sleep through that.
Me (humbled): Oh...
GOD: I didn't let your car start because there was a drunk driver on your
route who might have hit you if you were on the road.
route who might have hit you if you were on the road.
Me (ashamed): ............
GOD: The first person who made your sandwich today was sick and I didn't
want you to catch what they have, I knew you couldn't afford to miss work.
want you to catch what they have, I knew you couldn't afford to miss work.
Me (embarrassed): Oh.....
GOD: Your phone went dead because the person who was calling was going to
give a false witness about what you said on that call. I didn't even let you
talk to them so you would be covered.
give a false witness about what you said on that call. I didn't even let you
talk to them so you would be covered.
Me (softly): I see, God.
GOD: Oh and that foot massager, it had a short that was going to throw out
all of the power in your house tonight. I didn't think you wanted to be in
the dark.
all of the power in your house tonight. I didn't think you wanted to be in
the dark.
Me: I'm sorry God.
GOD: Don't be sorry, just learn to trust me.........in all things, the good
and the bad.
and the bad.
Me: I WILL trust you God.
GOD: And don't doubt that my plan for your day is always better than your
plan.
plan.
Me: I won't God. And let me just tell you God, thank you for everything
today.
today.
GOD: You're welcome, child. It was just another day being your God and I
love looking after my children.
love looking after my children.
Scriptural References: II Samuel 22:31, Proverbs 3:5, Hebrews 2:13 I felt
encouraged to share!
encouraged to share!
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Snow Day
Today is my first official SNOW DAY! Growing up, I remember watching movies and being jealous of the kids who got snow days and praying that that would happen to me someday! Well, today my prayers came true! I finally got my SNOW DAY! Yup, my work declared it a Snow Day and our offices are closed (along with the rest of Western Washington)!
Rumor has it, this is the worst snowstorm Western Washington has seen in over 4 decades and though the snow came late this winter, it has definitely arrived! The storm isn't even half way through its course yet, and we've already received over 8 inches...
When it snows here, everyone highly suggests that you don't go anywhere because of the road conditions. Well, being that my car is buried, I really can't go anywhere anyways... And, if I even WANTED to go out and about today, I would be sliding all over the place. You see, Washington gets snow every year, but they are only really equipped with enough staff and equipment for the main roads. Therefore, ALL of the side roads are packed snow and cars go on nice little twirls if the driver dares to go out for a drive.
Brody is like a little kid when it comes to the snow... I introduced him to it this morning and oh my goodness, is he cute! He leaps, pounces, and runs around in the snow, and also enjoys eating it! We have already gone outside a few times to play, and he keeps insisting we go back out and get all crazy in the snow. He cracks me up!
I'm keeping my fingers crossed that tomorrow will be another snow day. I love being all warm and cozy inside my home on cold winter days! It's like I'm on vacation up in the mountains!
Rumor has it, this is the worst snowstorm Western Washington has seen in over 4 decades and though the snow came late this winter, it has definitely arrived! The storm isn't even half way through its course yet, and we've already received over 8 inches...
When it snows here, everyone highly suggests that you don't go anywhere because of the road conditions. Well, being that my car is buried, I really can't go anywhere anyways... And, if I even WANTED to go out and about today, I would be sliding all over the place. You see, Washington gets snow every year, but they are only really equipped with enough staff and equipment for the main roads. Therefore, ALL of the side roads are packed snow and cars go on nice little twirls if the driver dares to go out for a drive.
Brody is like a little kid when it comes to the snow... I introduced him to it this morning and oh my goodness, is he cute! He leaps, pounces, and runs around in the snow, and also enjoys eating it! We have already gone outside a few times to play, and he keeps insisting we go back out and get all crazy in the snow. He cracks me up!
I'm keeping my fingers crossed that tomorrow will be another snow day. I love being all warm and cozy inside my home on cold winter days! It's like I'm on vacation up in the mountains!
Sunday, January 1, 2012
New Year
I feel like my life in 2011 has been a lot like this Dr. Seuss book. 2011 was quite the monumental year for me with non-stop changes, hardships, blessings, and excitement. This entry gives you a snapshot of my life this past year...
Love...
Trevor and I continued our long-distance relationship into the new year. We managed to see one another every other weekend, thanks to Southwest Airlines! We are so thankful for our friend's and family's support of our relationship and helping us see each other as often as we did.
Trevor and I continued our long-distance relationship into the new year. We managed to see one another every other weekend, thanks to Southwest Airlines! We are so thankful for our friend's and family's support of our relationship and helping us see each other as often as we did.
Ocotillo Wells, CA |
Mt. Rainier, WA |
San Diego, CA |
El Dorado Hills, CA |
Spring was filled with engagement parties and wedding planning! Our lives, along with our family's lives were consumed with wedding planning and crafts during our 6 month engagement.
Bridal Shower in El Dorado Hills, CA |
Wedding Shower in San Diego, CA |
Bachelorette Party in Palm Springs, CA |
Health...
Two weeks before our wedding, I went to the dermatologist for a routine check up and had a suspicious mole removed. The doctor informed me that the skin removed was malignant melanoma and I had to have more layers of tissue removed from the surrounding area to make sure that there isn't any more cancer. This was a very frightening thing to go through by myself. Trevor was in Seattle and my parents were in Sacramento. I had to put on my big girl pants and be brave throughout the coping and stress of knowing I have skin cancer. Thankfully, my mother-in-law was a tremendous support system to me, and I am so grateful to have had her by my side throughout surgery. Nine stitches later, I was cancer free and my lifestyle of tanning and playing in the sunshine has changed forever.
An 8mm mole turned into a 2 inch scar... |
Wedding...
June 11, 2011 marked the most special, beautiful, and significant day of my life. I married my prince charming, man of my dreams, my better half, my best friend-- Trevor Stevenson. We were married at a beautiful estate in San Diego and celebrated with 140 of our closest family and friends. The night couldn't have been more perfect!
June 11, 2011 marked the most special, beautiful, and significant day of my life. I married my prince charming, man of my dreams, my better half, my best friend-- Trevor Stevenson. We were married at a beautiful estate in San Diego and celebrated with 140 of our closest family and friends. The night couldn't have been more perfect!
After the wedding, we went on our honeymoon to Maui! There, we were able to let our brains rest from all of the wedding planning and relax for the big move to come. It was so much fun experiencing the island with Trevor; from road trips, hikes, zip-lining, and snorkeling, it was a great vacation!
Washington...
The day after we returned from our honeymoon, we were on the road to Washington. Since Trevor's job is located in Washington, we were on our way to begin our new life in a new state together. Life up here has been an adjustment, but we are slowly starting to settle into a groove. Shortly after moving, we got a puppy and named him Brody. He's pretty dang cute! I also started a new job in the hospitality industry as a Convention Sales Manager, bringing convention business to Bellevue. Though we miss family and friends, life in Washington is good.
Friends...
Every year it seems that my friendships either get closer or more distant. This year was very eye-opening to me regarding friends and who appreciate my friendship as much as I appreciate theirs. Throughout the engagement, the wedding, the move, and the life changes, I have discovered who my true friends are, and have learned to weed out the ones who do not reciprocate the effort. It is very liberating to have found true gems that will stick by you throughout all of the waves of life and who I can rely on at the drop of a dime. I am so grateful and blessed to have the friends I do today.
Travels...
Since living up here, we have been able to go home to see our family and friends! For Thanksgiving we visited my hometown, El Dorado Hills, where both our families enjoyed a wonderful week together. The following weekend we visited San Diego to see all of our friends and catch some sunshine! Our hearts are truly with our family and friends, and both of these trips was the best way for us to end our BIG year.
2012...
What's in store for us in 2012? For starters, we have finally found a "home" church up here. We are very excited to be involved in a church community and get to know more people. Trevor and I are also very prayerful that we have direction on what's next in our life; where we will live, work, and family choices. We want to be closer to family and friends before we truly decide to "settle down." Babies might be on the agenda for 2012, but again, this is something we are praying about and it all depends on God's perfect timing. God has kept his promises for us so far, so we all we need to do is continue trusting in him and listening to his guidance. We look forward to another amazing year. Cheers to 2012!
The day after we returned from our honeymoon, we were on the road to Washington. Since Trevor's job is located in Washington, we were on our way to begin our new life in a new state together. Life up here has been an adjustment, but we are slowly starting to settle into a groove. Shortly after moving, we got a puppy and named him Brody. He's pretty dang cute! I also started a new job in the hospitality industry as a Convention Sales Manager, bringing convention business to Bellevue. Though we miss family and friends, life in Washington is good.
New Home |
Brody! |
Zac Brown Band Concert @ The Gorge |
4th of July in Tacoma |
Seattle Gum Wall |
Hiking Wallace Falls |
Pumpkin Patch |
Our Family |
Every year it seems that my friendships either get closer or more distant. This year was very eye-opening to me regarding friends and who appreciate my friendship as much as I appreciate theirs. Throughout the engagement, the wedding, the move, and the life changes, I have discovered who my true friends are, and have learned to weed out the ones who do not reciprocate the effort. It is very liberating to have found true gems that will stick by you throughout all of the waves of life and who I can rely on at the drop of a dime. I am so grateful and blessed to have the friends I do today.
Travels...
Since living up here, we have been able to go home to see our family and friends! For Thanksgiving we visited my hometown, El Dorado Hills, where both our families enjoyed a wonderful week together. The following weekend we visited San Diego to see all of our friends and catch some sunshine! Our hearts are truly with our family and friends, and both of these trips was the best way for us to end our BIG year.
Thanksgiving with our Families |
San Diego, Like Old Times! |
Miss my girls! (You too, Nicole & Tarah!) |
What's in store for us in 2012? For starters, we have finally found a "home" church up here. We are very excited to be involved in a church community and get to know more people. Trevor and I are also very prayerful that we have direction on what's next in our life; where we will live, work, and family choices. We want to be closer to family and friends before we truly decide to "settle down." Babies might be on the agenda for 2012, but again, this is something we are praying about and it all depends on God's perfect timing. God has kept his promises for us so far, so we all we need to do is continue trusting in him and listening to his guidance. We look forward to another amazing year. Cheers to 2012!
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